Negotiating Tips: Tip 2 of 8

2. :Develop "negotiation awareness" Successful negotiators are assertive and challenge everything. They know that everything is negotiable.

"Challenge" means not taking things at face value. It means thinking for yourself. You must be able to make up your own mind; as opposed to believing everything you are told. On a practical level, this means you have the right to question the asking price of that new car. It also means you have an obligation to question everything you read in the newspaper or hear on television. You cannot negotiate unless you are willing to challenge the validity of the opposing position.

Being assertive means asking for what you want and refusing to take "no" for an answer. Practice expressing your feelings without anxiety or anger. Let people know what you want in a non-threatening way. Practice 'I' statements. For example, instead of saying, "You shouldn't do that," try substituting, "I don't feel comfortable when you do that."

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Negotiating Tip: No Today, Doesn't Mean No Tomorrow

To many times we as negotiators give up on sales calls, contracts or just plain one-on-one negotiating because someone told us no. Why? Because somewhere along life's journey we have been told if someone tells us no today, that means tomorrow the answer will be the same - nothing could be further from the truth!
Over the past 20 plus years that I have been negotiating, there have been numerous times that if I did not revisit the issue after a client or prospect said no to me, I would have missed out on the transaction or deal.

Once you have received cutting edge negotiating training like I provide my students, it will become second nature to you when it is appropriate to revisit an issue or prospect. To learn more about my training program or sign up for a Free Newsletter click here .

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Negotiating Tip: How To Keep in Control of Negotiations

How do you keep in control of negotiations has been an age old problem since the time of the Romans. Many times the negotiations start out with you in control, and rapidly spiral out of control allowing your opponent to gain control and eventually claim victory in the negotiations.

So here is the million dollar question, how do you prevent this from happening? Good question, I’m glad you asked! Let’s say your in the heat of negotiations and suddenly you feel the scales of power tipping in favor of your opponent – what do you do?
Do you sit back, let it happen and chalk this one up in the lose column? Do you become argumentative and get up and leave? Or do you take what you can get, and walk away with the notion that something is better than nothing?
Absolutely not! You employ a tactic known as a side bar : definition: a discussion between the judge and attorneys at the bench off the record and outside the hearing of the jurors or spectators, often focusing on issues other then the main issue.

So this is what you do. You have 2 choices, you can ask a question or start addressing an issue that is off the main point in order to regain control, and once you feel your back in control of the negotiations you can revisit the main point(s) of the negotiations.
If there is a single issue you’re negotiating, ask for a break to use the restroom, or to make a phone call, or even to retrieve something from your vehicle! The purpose of this tactic is to break your opponent’s rhythm, stop their forward progression, throw their game off and cause them, when reengaged to revert back to their submissive position in the negotiations. Contrary to popular belief, not all negotiations are a “win – win” situation; the mark of a great negotiator is always striving to be on the win side of the equation.

To your success,

James A. Gage

Negotiating Tips: Real Estate Short Sale - Part 2

Hello All:

Welcome to part 2 of how I negotiate a pre-foreclosure way under fair market value. As you read in the last post I assembled some pointed info that assisted me during the negotiations.
This is what I did with it...

First, I knew their chances of taking a substantial below market offer was high, due to the days on market, which was 180 days. Secondly, it had been vacant for a long time meaning the longer it stays that way the greater chance of vandalism and the greater chance that the bank will have their insurance policy canceled ( Most insurance companies will not insure vacant properties).

So during the first round of offers we strongly stress these waiting hazards with the listing realtor, so they may also stress to the bank are concerns for their property when they presented my offer. My goal here was to cause the bank to feel the pain of what if(s)!

During my next post I will explain how things ended up.

Until next time be well.

James A. Gage

Negotiating Tip: Do I need a Negotiating Trainer?

One of the most important questions you have to answer for yourself as you build your negotiating business is who are you going to listen to and learn from?

This is especially true now with so many home based business marketers vying for your attention and screaming “me, me, me!”

I have found that there are 3 types of “teachers & trainers” on the internet, and only one type is always worth following:

Type 1 - Someone who has read a book or gone to a seminar on a topic, has never successfully done it, and is now going to teach you how to do it. I recommend my RLH response here: Run Like Hell!

Type 2 - Teacher has successfully done what you want to learn, is going to teach you, but is no longer doing it. Approach with caution: while you might be able to learn some good tips and strategies, you will be learning what got them where they are, not what they are doing right now to be successful. You won’t learn leading edge new stuff.

Type 3 - Teacher has successfully done what you want to learn, is going to teach you, and continues to do what is being taught. With this kind of teacher you get it all: what got them to where they are, what they are doing now to continue to grow, and what are the new next steps and strategies to keep you moving forward.

This is the kind of teacher with whom I will spend my time and money. By the way type 3 is what describes my One-on-One Mentoring philosphy which I have practiced for over 22 years!

My recommendation: Learn from and follow only those who have done it, are teaching it, and continue to do it in their own businesses every day.

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